Recently, I was flattered by a question from my friend's husband, a pastor who asked if he could pick my brain on healthy food and lifestyle choices, as he was preparing a sermon on food choice and the body as thy temple, etc. I was happy to answer his questions, and I think the conversation was as thought provoking for me as it was for him. Then again this morning, after my Sunday yoga class, I was approached by a young man who wanted to know how I had gotten so "toned", leading to an interesting conversation on many aspects of health and wellness. I was, again, truly flattered, and felt that I took as much away from the experience as I gave. It really felt great when this 21 year old nearly fell over when I mentioned my age (regarding the the 'how to get toned' question, when I answered that I had always worked out and at almost 41, that is a long time, lol!), which then lead to him wanting to know all about everything and then some. Of course, there is more to all of this than I could possibly cover in that conversation, and I ended up having to cut it short, as we could have stood there all day. But, these two experiences have really caused me to do some thinking, and have been interesting as they seem to represent a subtle shift in societal thinking. I am far more accustomed to people asking questions about our lifestyle from a position of defending their own, therefore, I tend to be generally low key about these things outside of my immediate family and circle of friends. Here lately, however, there seems to be a growing curiosity about health issues, and an increased desire to learn more and implement that knowledge to a more healthy lifestyle.
This is good. This increase in awareness in the general public is a very, very good thing. The Standard American Diet (or SAD, as many refer to it) is killing us. That's right, killing us. It astonishes me that even MORE people are not aware of this, and choose to bury their heads in the sand. Never before has the incidence of cancer, heart disease, and diabetes been higher. Younger and younger people are getting these ailments, and more are dying from them. This is no coincidence, either. Good health is bad business. As long as policy is driven by the very entities that profit from said policy, our health will be compromised. I recently read that of the 100 strongest economic entities worldwide, 49 of them are countries and 51 of them are corporations. That tells you right there who is driving policies.
Having said all of that, I am really not used to discussing these things with those outside our little circle (and, of course, this blog), much less summing up our philosophies to strangers in a matter of minutes. So, these conversations have got me thinking, pondering over the main questions I was asked, which are:
1. What would you recommend to a person who was 125 lbs. overweight, who wanted to loss the weight without drugs or surgery?
2. Why vegetarianism and organic? What makes it better than the SAD?
3. What about protein?
4. How did you get so toned and how can I do the same?
5. How do you look so young? Is it because you are a vegetarian?
Thinking about all this is so good, because it makes me define my way of life, and be able to express more concisely to folks who are starting at the beginning of this journey, rather than my usual crowd who knows as much about this stuff as I do, if not more. So, here are my initial thoughts on the questions above. Bear with me, I may add to this later.
1. What would you recommend to a person who was 125 lbs. overweight, who wanted to loss the weight without drugs or surgery?
Well, I am not a doctor, a nutritionist, a dietitian, or a trainer, so what I am about to say is simply my own opinion and what has worked for me. Having never been overweight though, much of it is theory. But... our health and vitality is a direct result of the choices me make. When we make choices that allow our bodies to become obese, this affects every organ in our bodies, every cell, all the tissue, and how everything works. Reversing that is HARD, really, really hard, yet it absolutely can be done. A person must realize at the onset however, that it will not happen overnight, and a commitment to oneself is the first and most important choice to be made to lose the weight. You didn't gain the weight overnight, and you won't lose it overnight, either, but each day you will begin to look and feel better and better. Once that commitment is made, I would recommend, under the guidance of a qualified health practitioner, that the person drastically modify what they are consuming. All soda, fast food, processed food, non organic food, genetically modified food, and meat would be out. In its place would be a totally organic, vegan, and mostly raw diet, making sure that all the nutritional needs would be met. In addition, I would advise the person to do a good colon cleanse for excess accumulated waste, and then candida cleanse to rid them of yeast overgrowth that causes, among many other problems, food cravings. Next, I would have the person walking everyday and swimming, to start. Hopefully the health practitioner they were seeing would have them on digestive enzymes as well. It all goes back to the choices me make, and if we commit to a healthier lifestyle, we will eventually look better, feel better, and shed unwanted pounds. Our bodies were not made to be fat, or sick, or tired!
All of this stated, I tend to believe that weight gain often begins with ones poor feelings about oneself, so mental health issues must be addressed, as well.
2. Why vegetarianism and organic? What makes it better than the SAD?
Organic produce is grown without the use of harmful pesticides and fertilizers. If it kills bugs, it will kill you. It is also not usually genetically modified. Genetically modified food is food in which the seeds have been modified to resist weed killers, produce their own pesticides, grow larger, etc, etc. Studies have shown that organic, non genetically modified food has much more nutritional value than its counterparts. So, organics are more nutritious and non toxic. Why not eat them?
As far as vegetarianism, this is two fold. First, our bodies do not digest meat well at all. Meat basically sits in the stomach until it rots and is passed. What is actually passed. What isn't sits in the colon and turns toxic. Chicken is not much better. Fish is more easily digested, but can contain loads of mercury if not organically grown, which is toxic. Second, most meat and chicken is grown in extremely unhealthy conditions, injected with hormones and antibiotics, and fed a diet that is biologically incorrect. This leads to a very unhealthy animal. They are then processed in huge facilities which are allowed, by law, to monitor themselves. It all adds up to antibiotic resistant E Coli strains and extremely unhealthy animals, which then becomes your substandard food. You are what you eat, and do you really want to eat something that you won't digest well, if at all, and then if it isn't organic could make you very, very sick? I don't.
Finally, as a vegetarian, my diet consists of mostly vegetable products, lots of fruit, and multi grains. I get all of my nutritional requirements (with the exception of B12, which I get in a flax seed oil capsule), I feel great, have no digestive or weight issues, and I never get sick.
3. What about protein?
The average American gets one to two times the amount of protein they need. This cannot be stored, and actually, in excessive amounts can cause distress to the kidneys and other health issues. A lacto-ovo vegetarian (one who eats eggs and dairy) gets enough high quality protein in their diet. Vegans who eat plenty of dark green leafy veggies, a variety of plant food, and nuts and legumes also gets the recommended amount of protein. The myth that vegetarians do not get enough protein is completely untrue.
4. How did you get so toned and how can I do the same?
I had to think about this one. It seems like it would be the easiest question, but truly it was not, so I broke it down. First, I don't know your body or body type; only my own. So we will start there.
I have been working out most of my life in one form or another. I was always a runner- it came naturally to me. I was a competitive gymnast as a kid. As a young adult I regularly did aerobics, and at age 26 I began to walk 7 miles a day with my 2 very young kids (couldn't afford a jog stroller, so we power walked, lol!)and did a toning video afterwards. Once my youngest was 2 years old, at age 28, I began going to the gym each day, running and then alternating upper and lower body, and doing abs every day. I continued this for many years, and then switched to almost entirely yoga. I did that for about a year until I recently began adding the weights and cardio again. I have never felt extreme about any of this, just that in order for it to be effective, it had to be consistent- like brushing your teeth. So, with all the consistency, plus a naturally lean built, my muscles tend to show up more than most folks.
Anyone can built muscle. The truth of the matter though is that the leaner you are, the more it shows. That is why body builders "lean up" before the competition season. It is the same concept. So, my advice to the young man you asked me is this: do yoga, start a weight training program, add in some cardio, and be consistent. Eventually, you will be toned...at least I think so. Remember, I'm not a trainer (although my husband is, actually, so I checked with him that my advise was on the mark. He said it was:).
5. How do you look so young? Is it because you are a vegetarian?
This was so sweet, and I want to say up front that at my age, a lot depends on how much sleep I get! But, seriously, I do get this a lot, and I am both flattered and deeply convicted about my answer. It isn't just me, either. I know many others on the same path, and we all look and feel the same, if not better, than we did at 18. It all goes back to the choices you make. At 40, you are (and look) either old, or young. Period. I have been a vegetarian most of my life, I have eaten organic, non toxic food most of my life. I have limited or eliminated junk food, fast food, sugars, processed foods, and the SAD for the majority of my life. I have taken cleanses to remove toxins, taken digestive enzymes, made sure my digestive system was in good shape. I have combined all this with exercise, activity, movement, ideas, stress management, happiness, meaningful work, and love. I try to make conscious choices, and live my life with awareness. I laugh. I dance. I sing. I do what brings me joy. I guess it has paid off. I truly believe that our modern lifestyle causes premature aging if one is not aware of the dangers and takes precautions to deal with the effects that this modern world has on them.
So there you have it. I do want to add that, while we are seekers, and strive to live a healthy lifestyle, we are not perfect and don't expect perfection of others. It's about setting your course and working to stay on track. Everyone veers off track now and then. It's about trying to stay as close to the road you have chosen as much as possible. If you do that, the law of averages will be on your side.